Myself Ravi Kumar (imaginary Name) got married in June 2019. We also went to honeymoon and happily spend 4 month with each other. But soon she started to run away from matrimonial responsibilities and demanded to go separate from my family with further condition that she will not allowed me to even meet my parents. On my refusal she left my home after 4 month. Later Brother In Law came to my house and beaten my parent and took away all jewellery and pregnancy reports (as she was 2 month pregnant at that time) to remove proves of pregnancy so that she could abort the child and could lead a free life. But immediately we reported the matter to police and inform the Op. that we have got issued duplicate pregnancy reports from hospitals. In this way we save my child but did not further pursue the matter to save my marriage by thinking that with time after pregnancy she will get matured.
Unfortunately I started receiving threats from in-laws to go separate from my parents. So I reported the same to almost 15 authorities but disgustingly on my complaint I have been called to PS 3 times at my local PS and it is asked me to go separate from your parent, on my refusal it is asked me to give in written that you will not go separate from parents and taken my written statement thereof (as I have committing any crime by refusing to leave my parent in this old age.) My I.O did not stop here she further threaten to me that I will prepare a report to teach a lesson to you.
Now you see I was the complainant, I.O called only me to 3 times at PS and only my statement recorded. More surprisingly I.O asked to me to give in writing the matter that was already mentioned in my complaint that I am receiving threats to go separate from my parents and cannot go separate from parents. Furthermore I.O asked me to record my statement in Hindi because she can’t read English make me surprise and laugh that even she read my complaint or not? Seems to be big joke that how Law and system treat the men in this country. Neither my Wife’s statement recorded nor she or my in-laws called in PS.
After great success of my 1st letter; (At least I received any response from PS usually most men victim in India in such case does not receives any response even) I write a 2nd letter to 20 authorities and requested for statement of my wife at least, but this time PS of my wife’s jurisdiction (on my complaint to CMO Delhi office that was assigned to him) phone called me and asked to come Delhi (120 k.m) and asked to me what can he do for me as it is family matter. If wife files a complaint on husband get ready for criminal trial and harassment of whole family is sure but if vice versa it is civil matter no one can act upon.
3rd letter is in pipe line and soon I will share the progress of further harassment to me on my complaint as well as complaint of my wife as thereafter my wife went in PS on retaliation ground and lodged a complaint against my whole family including charges of sexual harassment.